Wednesday, March 2, 2011

Johnny Gunn's Barbershop

It’s lunchtime and the crowd has finally slowed. He seems lonely when he’s not cutting hair. The ceiling fan clicks overhead, and a small tuft of hair blows across the black-and-white checkered floor and lands under the church pews in the waiting area.

“This is all I ever wanted to do,” he says quietly.

Johnny Gunn is known by everyone in Habersham County, Georgia. For 50 years, they’ve trusted him with their hair. They trust him with their small-town gossip. They trust him with their secrets. He knows more about them than he probably should, but they don’t really know about him.

Many of his customers don’t know why he sits down to cut hair, they just give him grief about it. In fact, they don’t know that he designed this barbershop while lying in a hospital bed. They don’t know that his love of cutting hair saved his life.

Thirty years ago, Johnny was riding his motorcycle when he was struck head-on by a car. After 14 surgeries and 215 days in the hospital, he was left with two choices: he could stay in the hospital longer and try an experimental procedure that would possibly save his leg or he could have his leg amputated. He chose to have his left leg taken off.

“At that time, I began to look towards the future. I had a family--a wife and three children that I deeply loved and wanted to support. I really wanted to be a person that could make something out of himself, something that he would be proud of.”

Johnny began plotting his return from the hospital bed.

“I mentally designed the way I would come back and cut hair, and that was to design a way to sit down and do my work.”

He contracted help, and within months, Johnny had a raised platform that allowed him to be taller than his clients, even while sitting down. He decided to install salon chairs that would allow him to adjust the height with his right leg and counters that were close enough to have all of his utensils within arms reach.

“I’m lucky to be alive,” he says, shifting his weight. “I probably can keep up with most anybody. It’s never slowed me down.”

The door squeaks open and a smile floods across Johnny’s face. A little boy and his father enter the barbershop. Johnny stands up to greet them, bracing himself against the counter. The boy hops in the chair and rolls his eyes when Johnny asks about his girlfriends. Johnny drapes the shawl around the little boy and flips a switch on the clippers, releasing a monotone buzz throughout the shop. With that, Johnny is lost in his world again, cutting hair. This is where he is happiest.

“I love children – I’m crazy about them,” he says later. His barbershop has been closed for almost an hour, but he’s still busy cleaning up for the following day. “A lot of them, I’ve given them their first haircut, they grow up and get married. To watch them grow up…it’s just a lot of fun.”

Johnny had three children of his own, two girls and one boy. He walks over to their photographs, which are proudly displayed on the mantel of the fireplace in the heart of the barbershop. He stops at a picture of his two daughters laughing and hugging each other and hesitates. “We lost both of them,” he says softly.

Johnny talks about the death of his daughters with an intense stare, as if he’s trying to remember every detail, every line on their face or the sound of their laugh. His eldest daughter died unexpectedly only three years ago due to complications from surgery. “She died in her momma’s arms,” he says.

Johnny says his faith and his profession are ultimately what brought him through the death of his daughters. He poured himself into his work and continued to look towards the future, just as he did the day he lost his leg.

At 66 years old, he spends every day doing what he loves most: cutting hair. A wide smile stretches across his face. "I’d rather do this than eat a big steak when I’m hungry,” he laughs.

Johnny’s not one to feel sorry for himself. He doesn’t wake up every morning wishing he had his left leg; he just thanks God that he’s alive. He misses his daughters each moment of his life, but he’s thankful for the precious time he had with them.

“I’ve really been blessed. I’m just so thankful and I give God the credit for it. I’ve been a blessed man.”

Saturday, February 12, 2011

All I Know Is

Writer's block can be an ugly thing. So I headed over to this website to get some ideas. I went through several thousand writing suggestions until this one stood out:

I miss the friends we used to be.

"The truth is that there are a lot of people like you, us, with strange hobbies or talents or gifts and we try to hide it because we’re afraid that it makes us seem weird or it will turn people off, but that’s a mistake. What makes me unique has brought every person I love into my life."
-Pushing Daisies

There's been so many times I wondered why you came into my life for everything just to end the way it did.

I miss finger painting and road trips. I miss running through the sprinklers and eating pepperoncinis. I miss making friendship bracelets and taking pictures. I miss building forts out of sheets, sneaking baby ducks into dorm rooms, and riding the wrong way down one-way streets. I miss your terrible driving. I miss brownie-batter blizzards. I miss jumping into water fountains with you. I miss jumping on your roommates bed. I miss everything.

We didn't understand the value of true friendship. We took that for granted.

Now that we've moved on and made new friends, found new interests, and are moving to different corners of the country, I will still look upon those years as some of the best years of my life. Even though it ended badly, the only thing I regret is being unable to work through our problems.

Over a year later, I think I've finally found my answer to why you came into my life. You showed me how fun life could be. You showed me what true friendship is. You proved to me that there was someone out there that understood me.

I will never find another friend like you. Even though my heart aches for those days, you let me know it was okay to be myself. I only hope I did the same for you.

I miss the friends we used to be. I miss the friends that we'll never have the chance to be again.


Friday, February 4, 2011

Random Thoughts


5 Reasons I Love My Mom:

1. She donates a bathrobe to Goodwill and buys it back a few weeks later because she felt sorry for it.

2. If she offers to cook you an egg sandwich for breakfast, you know she really loves you.

3. When I was between the ages of 3-6, she and I ate a Happy Meal together everyday for lunch and collected as many plastic toys as China could mass produce at a time.


5. She can usually get you anywhere you need to be faster than any leer-jet.


***

I think when you visit a place long enough, you keep a piece of it with you forever. I've been missing Costa Rica a lot lately.

It's funny how you learn a lot about yourself when you're placed in a foreign country with a group of strangers for a month. I learned that I'm stronger than I think. I learned that I care about people more than I thought I did. I learned that coming home is the best feeling in the world.



***

March might possibly be the most exciting month ever:

March 11 - My friend, Molly, her boyfriend, Josh, and Tom and I are heading to go see Pioneer Woman in Atlanta.

March 15 - 19 - Roadtrippin' down the coast of Florida with Tom. Staying here.

March 25 - 28 - Culverhouse's do Disney World.




Monday, January 31, 2011

Valentine's Gifts She'll Love....NOT

I was skimming the headlines tonight and this one caught my eye: GQ's Valentine's Day Gifts Women Will Flip For.

I was in a challenging mood, so I decided to click on it to see if these people actually knew their stuff.

Turns out, no, they did not.

At all.

Here are some things they recommended as gifts for Valentine's Day:

#1.
At first I thought this was vanilla extract or hydrogen peroxide in a fancy bottle. Turns out, it's fabric cleaner. And it's $35. You know, I'd almost rather my boyfriend give me vanilla extract for Valentine's Day because then I could drink it and pass out so that I could temporarily avoid the anger/hurt/resentment that comes along with getting such a horribly un-romantic Valentine's Day gift.

#2.
A $90 pillow. Really? Am I on candid camera? Oh, I think I understand now. This must be one of those "How-To-Get-Rid-Of-Your-Girlfriend-Fast-When-You-Find-Another-Girl-You-Want-To-Date" articles. Because I think this pillow would do the trick.

Granted, it's a beautiful pillow. But I, personally, do not enjoy getting pillows as gifts. It's sort of like getting underwear for Christmas -- I feel like the whole point of giving gifts is giving the other person something they don't necessarily need, but rather, something they want. I don't know, maybe that's just showing my immaturity on the subject...

#3.

So out of all the incredibly cute things one can find at J.Crew, these morons managed to pick the ONE thing I wouldn't want. Impressive. Unless you're dating Hugh Hefner, I'd suggest staying away from these.


#4.
"Oh, thanks honey, for the steak knives you gave me for Valentine's Day. I think I'll actually use them right now...to kill you." Trust me, don't give a crappy gift that can double as a weapon, especially on Valentine's Day.

The description they give isn't much better: "but in an array of colors with a badass Napoleonic seal engraved on their stainless steel shafts, they'll be sure to incite some revolutionary cooking." That description sounds suggestive.

No. No. No. These look like they could be in a dorm room. No.

#5.
Now I'm just appalled. In the article, they actually say, "It's always daunting to give your girl a ring, even one that's as far from a diamond as this strikingly modern, spherical violet band."

So...you're admitting that your girlfriend probably won't like it, but suggesting it anyway? Dude, diamonds are forever. Not to mention this contraption costs less than the stupid fabric cleaner you've already suggested.



In their defense, they got a few things right. Like this camera:


I actually have this camera and it's the best thing in the world. The film is $18 a roll and it costs almost that much to send it off to be developed, though, so unless she has a small fortune stored away for Lomo photography, it can be disappointing. But it does look beautiful hanging in my room and sometimes I walk around with it on my shoulder just to look cool.

And this "Forget Me Knot" ring is sort of adorable. Surprisingly, I have nothing negative to say about it.

The best gifts have thought behind them. They don't have to be expensive; they don't have to be name brand. The best gifts I have gotten [besides my dog] have been handmade. Like this little guy:



Tom welded this "love machine" from old tractor parts and license plates. Every time I see it out in my yard, it reminds me that someone out there loves me enough to spend hours in a barn bending metal.

Either way, I determined that maybe the title isn't that misleading. Your girl will flip, but probably not in the way you were hoping.

Or maybe, it's all a matter of opinion. An interior designer may love that $90 white pillow that will show pet hair like crazy. Or if you're into modern stuff, maybe you'll like that horrible plastic ring that bears an odd resemblance to the Advair discus.



Steve Moakler

I have been mildly obsessed with this guy for quite some time now, but today was actually the first day I had time to sit down and preview all of his new stuff that will be on his album released Spring 2011.

Sometimes, I find a song that I like so much that I cry. Like this one:


You're welcome for introducing you to the most amazing singer/songwriter that I have come across in 21 years. Sorry, John Mayer, you jut lost your spot as #1 in my book. But don't worry, you're still # 1 1/2.

Sunday, January 30, 2011

Can't Nothin' Fail But A Try

Tom is always complaining about how I never go fishing with him.

So, after convincing him to drive the coast of Florida with me for Spring Break '11, I figured I at least owed him a fishing trip. I decided to take Baylee and Aphid along for moral support and to carry my camera bags.

My first clue that this was going to be a really unsuccessful trip was when the local bait shop was out of ... bait. That's almost as annoying as the time I went to Sticky Fingers Rib Shack to discover they were out of ribs.

Trying to remain positive after finding out we have no bait to fish with, I suggest we find our own bait. When I was little, we used to pour Tide mixed with a bucket of water into the ground to make earthworms surface. So, we tried that. Of course it didn't work because we actually needed the worms this time. Tom also tried "vibrating" the ground with a metal stake and a hammer. He swore it would work. It didn't.

(Baylee has very kindly documented the entire adventure on paper to help you out visually because Tom threatened to break my camera.)


After about 30 minutes of trying to "charm" worms out of the earth, we grab a loaf of bread and head to the river.

We're well on our way when I notice that Tom keeps looking backwards.

"Is something wrong, Tom?"

"Nah, it's fine. The tire on the left side of the boat trailer looks low on air. We'll probably make it. Can't nothin' fail but a try..."

"Whatever."



The tire on the trailer popped. Or exploded. That would probably be a more accurate description of what happened.

My mood immediately improves because now, I know we won't be fishing today since I have to be back in town by 6:30.

I giggle. "Can't nothin' fail but a try."


Baylee starts laughing.

Well, this makes Tom very angry. So angry that he says inappropriate things.

We navigate to the side of the road and the truck behind us slowly drives past. The two men in the truck are engaged in a full-on fit of laughter. Apparently, when our tire exploded, it blew the fender 10 feet up in the air. I don't blame them. I was laughing, too.


At this point, Tom has reached his limit:



And as a photojournalist-in-training, I have been taught that when someone reaches their limit, you take pictures. I immediately start shooting Tom, the shredded tire, and the lop-sided trailer.



And so, after dumping the boat in a pecan orchard, heading back to town for a spare tire, and finally, heading back to the boat to put the new tire on, we return to the house without having come within 15 miles of the river.

Here are some pictures that I took while Tom was too busy to threaten me and my camera:


And some pictures of the mean, grumpy-pants, Hulk himself:



And I'm also pretty sure I can get you a great deal on a boat (trailer included) if you're interested.




Saturday, January 29, 2011

True Life: My Mom Is a Germ Freak

And it's gotten a lot worse since the last time I was home.

For example, today.

We dropped my sister off at Mercer for an all day nerd-fest (aka music camp) and set off for a day of shopping. First, we stopped at a gas station.


And then I saw it.


Homegirl was wearing a plastic, polyethylene, one-size-fits-all, disposable glove. Turns out she keeps a stash of them in her car to arm herself against all the fatal diseases one can catch from a gas pump.

I mean, I keep a bottle of GermX in my glove compartment for the same reasons, but gloves?

About ten minutes later, we stopped at Cracker Barrel for breakfast. Once our food arrived, Mom decided her fried egg needed salt. Mom grabbed an extra napkin, wrapped it around the salt shaker, and proceeded to salt her egg. I took a picture of this also, but my phone likes to delete my pictures on a regular basis.

Then, we saw a sign for a yard sale. So my mom got out this:



Just kidding. But a beautiful thing happened at this yard sale.

I stayed in the car because I had no interest in pillaging through other people's junk. Yard sales, to me, are awkward. So, I told mom to wave her hands in the air if she needed me. Well, within 30 seconds, she started waving her hands. I reluctantly got out of the car and walked up to where Mom was standing. And then I found these:



Yep. I got Ryan Adams' Gold and JM's Room For Squares for ONE DOLLAR EACH. I may or may not have screamed like a seven-year-old at a Jonas Brothers concert.

Of course, I had all the JM songs and almost all of the Ryan Adams songs on the cd's but it's always nice to have a hard copy of a JM cd to stare at in hopes that he will fly down from New York and tell me he dumped Jennifer Love Hewitt, Jessica Simpson, and Taylor Swift because he was holding out for me.

And my mom actually let me play them in her car without disinfecting them first. Then we shopped for six hours. Successful day? I think so.